Researcher in the affairs of family relationships offers three laws to choose a life partner

 

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Choosing a life partner is what preoccupy young men and women, a lecturer and researcher in the affairs and family relations Mohammed Irons His campaign "chose true" decided to help them in this choice of some laws and methods that can be relied upon these young people to choose health partner, says adoption of married life on range of aspects considered are the main focus must be careful all young men and women on these aspects during the selection period or period of progress for the sermon. The main of these aspects in a set of points called "the law" to be are the laws that goes by both young girl, first debt law and is intended to good morals and behavior, not religion only, Second Law efficiency, which consists of 6 differences must put them in front of our eyes They age difference, function, scientific, social level, the physical level, the religious level, are considered the standard of efficiency between the spouses. For age difference emphasized psychologists and the meeting that the difference appropriate age husband and wife from 3 years to 5 years, in case of increase for 10 years will occur many problems due to the difference great between generations, and there are some cases where the girl is larger than the young in age and here problem occurs in only one case is to be young sober and sane and understands the age group which is which is which. The differential functional prefer not to marriage between a young man and a girl is higher than in the functional level because this make him feel embarrassed after that but could not succeed marriage in case that young head, for example, a less than in the job, as well as the scientific level must be there is a convergence between them, Social difference there are families with a high reputation in place it would be difficult to happen understanding between the two young men if someone from a modest family and other high reputation as well as the large physical differences and religious. Adds there is a law of love, and there is wrong when young men and women that they say that love comes from the first look, but there are stages of love first steps love is attraction then admiration, and this admiration generates talk the same and when hold it up both of them to love, but young university fall in error, as they imagine that love comes from the first look and finish all their feelings in the university and when they could marry each discover they two different personalities, because the beloved do not see the other party defects they did not know some of properly.